How Being A Jerk will Help Your Blog

In college, I learnt how to write a business plan.  You know those crazy boring documents that outline your business and marketing strategy.  Subsequently, after launching my own company I learnt that only people who actually read these are bank managers and lawyers.

I now don’t have a business plan, I don’t need one.   Instead I use something much more useful – these 10 questions, which I ask myself every month and which form the basis of future development and marketing at Task.fm

I believe the same approach could apply to your blog and products you release.   You don’t need to come up with a complex plan for your blog.  Instead just ask yourself this question:

Why the hell would someone want to read my blog?

Of course if you’re just blogging for fun, you don’t need to do this and can stop reading my drivel.  But if you want to make an income, you need to start being tough on yourself.  Enter being a jerk….

Be a Jerk

When answering the above question, there is no point in being easy on yourself.  You need to be tough, be a jerk.

Go back through your content.  Can this information be found elsewhere?  Are people just commenting on my posts because they want to plug their blogs or are they actually reading this and taking value away?  Am I being a “guru” and telling people how they should operate, or should I be sharing personal experiences and real value?  If I stopped blogging today would people miss my blog?

Some of those questions are hard to truly and honestly answer.  No one wants to admit that their blog is dispensable.

The jury (being me, myself and I) is still out on my blog.  I think I’m making improvements, just look back a few months at some of the crap I wrote back then.   It doesn’t matter if its not perfect atm, its an ongoing thing.  If I improve my blog just 1% everyday, in a year its going to be 300% better.  How many bloggers can claim that?

You Can’t Always Be The Nice Guy

You can’t always please everyone.  Sooner or later, you’re going to have to form an opinion and upset some people.

This post of mine, telling people to stop being a productivity nerd, was the most successful traffic wise on this blog.  It received over 4000 visitors in the first day from Hacker News and Reddit.  The comments on the post were fairly neutral and supportive, but I got hell on Hacker News.  And I loved it!

It sparked a great conversation.  Lots of ideas were thrown around and people were REALLY influenced.    People didn’t just comment “great post blah blah blah…I’m really just here because commenting is my single biggest source of traffic”.  Instead, they formed an opinion, argued, criticised, thanked, joked and in the end created an actual conversation.

I actually felt pleased with myself.  Knowing that potentially some poor sod who had been tirelessly and anally tracking his time, like every regurgitated post had told him too, had learnt of another option.  In my opinion that makes it worth it!

I challenge you to hop off the fence and write what you really believe in.  That being said, don’t be controversial for the sake of it.  I still write plenty of “feel good” posts and many bloggers never write a controversial post, but still succeed by sharing their ideas (not other peoples).

Share Everything You Have to Offer

Why is Glen Allsop such as successful blogger?  Why did he make over $3000 from his ebook the day it launched?  I could give you an analysis of the marketing and branding techniques I think he uses.  But really, I think its something much simpler yet ironicly harder to replicate.

Look at this post – he is genuinely sharing advice that isn’t freely available online.  All the numbers and earning details are there.  Peeps love this type of content.  I’m not saying Glen (I honestly don’t now) shares every tip and trick he knows (he might), but he puts out content that you won’t elsewhere.

Personally, I know I’m going to go back to that post to revisit the information in the future.  I know it will come in handy, it’s a valuable resource.

Another great example of really good content is Tim Ferriss and the 4 Hour Workweek blog.  Just look at the discussion in the comments to find out how popular and valuable every post of his is.

In Summary

  • Hop off the fence for some posts.  If you don’t believe in something, don’t post it just because someone else is writing about.
  • Form your unique ideas – what can you offer that no one else can?
  • Make it an ongoing thing.  No need to have an overnight revolution.  Improve things by 1% daily.  It took me years to form my writing style.
  • Be tough on yourself.  If you can’t justify why your blog is awesome and unique,try and change it.

Of course I could be wrong and in that case I’ll just sit on the fence ;) My next post btw will be “How not being a jerk will help your blog”.

Awesome image by: cotidad

P.S – Take a look at the ebook, seriously

Can I Read this post later or send a copy to my email

13 Comments

  1. Posted January 20, 2010 at 9:50 pm | Permalink

    This is a fantastic post Anthony! My business plan until now was: “Make money”, but now I’m considering adding those questions too!

    Oscar

    • Anthony
      Posted January 21, 2010 at 10:50 am | Permalink

      You really should – those questions to a great job of helping me focus and concentrate on the things I should be concentrating on when it comes to my startup.

  2. Posted January 20, 2010 at 11:04 pm | Permalink

    Thanks for the kick up the arse, Anthony.

    Sometimes you need to stop doing what you think you should be doing (or saying) and just say/do whatever the hell you want to do.

    I think it boils down to an uncontrollable need to be liked. Do what you want to say and say what you want to say and you’ll find people that resonate with you. Those are the people you should be connecting with and ultimately, selling products to!

  3. Posted January 21, 2010 at 12:39 am | Permalink

    Thanks for the link!

    Best of luck with your eBook, buddy.

    - Glen
    .-= Glen Allsopp´s last blog ..How I Wrote a $30,000 eBook (And You Can Too) =-.

  4. Posted January 21, 2010 at 3:13 pm | Permalink

    Well, well, well. Being a jerk can certainly bait some good links. :D It can be overdone though. But then being a jerk can get the word out about you and your business and you polarize people into either loving you or hating you. Either way, you get attention. and in this blogging business, attention is our biggest currency! :D

  5. Posted January 21, 2010 at 4:09 pm | Permalink

    Your blog indeed has the element of uniqueness. As I read through I can see your character in it. By your unique approach you have exemplified one important factor of a good blogger. I’ll take your advice in addition to my own. :-)

  6. Posted January 21, 2010 at 4:58 pm | Permalink

    The post idea of examining what you are doing critically is not just for business oriented bloggers.

    Many bloggers start out just to write personal blogs and eventually decide to change course and monetize the blog.

    Being critical of your writing from the beginning and trying to improve that 1% each day that you speak of can lead anyone to a more successful blog experience..

    And taking a stand occasionally is part of growing as a writer.

    Nice post. Made me think. Thanks..

  7. Posted January 22, 2010 at 4:34 am | Permalink

    Yes, I think the most important piece of advice is to be yourself. You don’t need to follow someone else’s path. Examples: You don’t have to by like Gary Vaynerchuk to achieve success on your own terms. Or even with your example, you don’t have to be like Glen to be successful. I think being as genuine as you possibly can be is the best strategy.

    I also like your advice on taking it slow. Success (whatever the hell that means) doesn’t need to come overnight. Appreciate the learning. Appreciate the process.
    .-= Nate´s last blog ..Information Overload – Part II =-.

  8. JERK
    Posted January 31, 2010 at 12:25 pm | Permalink

    Im a jerk I know Im a jerk I know….

    Anyways whats the plugin at the bottom of your page… and hurry up with the answer.

    • Anthony
      Posted January 31, 2010 at 1:39 pm | Permalink

      lol – which one are you talking about the CommentLuv one? The similar posts one? Give me some more details and I’ll hook you up

  9. Posted February 2, 2010 at 9:32 pm | Permalink

    You have it right man. Being tough on yourself and getting a bit uncomfortable to realise what you are doing and where you are going is a good thing. Not every one is going to like what you have to say and if you don’t stand for something you literally will fall for anything.

    Great article! :)
    .-= Eric´s last blog ..Lets Help Each Other =-.

  10. Posted February 10, 2010 at 9:48 pm | Permalink

    Anthony you legend!!

    i do this to myself all the time. flipping between nice guy and full jerk mode. which kinda concerns me because a while back my grandmother lost her shit and drove the wrong way on the highway, convinced that she was being chased by the mafia only to find out that she was semi-schizo. they say it’s genetic. uh-oh. :)

    awwwsome to see glen mentioned too. awwwsome mate – we jammed every night for a year when he was here last and he just landed this week for another year of adventures.

    keep it unreals mate
    alex – unleash reality

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